Domestic Violence Help - When Home Is Not Safe

05/02/21 ·CompEAP

In the United States, nearly 20 people every minute are physically abused by an intimate partner. These numbers are reported to be rising during the COVID pandemic, as people are increasingly contained at home and experiencing stress. Physical violence is often a prominent part of an abusive relationship, but not
always. 

Know the signs:
  • Physical or emotional abuse
  • Extreme criticism, jealousy or possessiveness
  • Isolation from family or friends
  • Pressure to have unwanted sexual relations
  • Pressure to quit work or school
  • Explosive temper
  • Constant put-downs
  • Attempts to control your freedom & choices

If you’re experiencing any of the above, please know that you are not alone, and this is not your fault. CompEAP, your Employee Assistance Program, is available 24/7 with free and confidential assistance from an experienced team of counselors. Whether you need immediate assistance or would just like to talk about what you are experiencing, we are here. Understanding Domestic Violence Domestic violence takes many forms including physical assault, verbal attacks, isolation, economic control, intimidation and threats. Abuse usually occurs in cycles of violent episodes followed by apologies, gifts and promises to “never again”. Domestic violence cuts across all income levels, genders, racial and ethnic groups, occupations, age, and sexual orientations. Domestic violence engulfs an entire family, and children of all ages, including infants, are deeply impacted. Help from CompEAP When an individual, a manager/colleague or household member calls for support, an experienced counselor begins with an assessment. We are mindful of the sensitive nature of these calls and the risks involved. We stress confidentiality and repeatedly evaluate safety. 

We can provide a variety of services including:
  • Risk assessment and safety planning
  • Education about domestic violence
  • Referrals to shelters, support groups, and other programs
  • Support for children
  • Counseling provided in-person or by phone, video or text/chat – when and where you need it
  • Consultation with a CompEAP attorney about legal and financial matters
  • Ongoing follow up and support