Use media to start a conversation.
Kids see and hear messages about sex every day in the media – like on TV, in music, and online. When something comes up in a TV show or song, use it as an opportunity to start a conversation with your child.
Talk in the car or in the kitchen.
It can sometimes be easier to talk about sex if you are doing something else at the same time. Try asking a question when you are driving or cooking dinner.
You can still show your child that you are listening by nodding your head or repeating what your child says to you.
Be honest.
It’s okay to feel embarrassed or uncomfortable. Be honest with your child about how you are feeling. Remember, when you are honest with your child, your child is more likely to be honest with you.
Talk with other parents.
Remember that you are not the only parent thinking about how to talk to kids about sex. Ask other parents how their conversations with their kids are going. You may be able to get useful tips and ideas.
Talking to other parents is also a great way to learn more about the messages other kids are getting about sex and relationships.
